Suffering in silence

Hi all😊 I was assigned to write a personal Essay at school. The essay was on my struggle with mental illness as I struggled to deal with my father's death. I would like to share it with you in hopes that it might be of help to those who are silently suffering like I was.…

Grow that Fro

A friend of mine reached out to me this week and asked me for tips on how to increase her growth; she was in a difficult position because she has been considering cutting her hair in order to restart her hair growth. After sharing my tips with her I decided to share them with all…

Long distance heartbreak – (Letting him go)

If you’re like me, then you’re the kind of person that wears your heart on a sleeve. The problem with wearing your heart on a sleeve is that when that heart breaks, it breaks into a million pieces and shatters your soul. In the dictionary heartbreak is defined as an overwhelming distress. it is said…

Welcome to Life with Benita

Hello everyone and welcome to my blog.  My name is Benita Marlene Kipela I am 21, and I live in the beautiful city of Cape Town South Africa. I am a full time student at Brigham Young University Idaho and I currently work as an administrative assistant for a small security company. I have wanted…